A baby's random gesture, "a sign that mom loves you"
What does the various gestures a baby show mean? Have you ever wondered what you mean? Perhaps that gesture is a sign that tells mom, "I love you!" Let's check what signs are there.
What kind of gestures are signs that you love mom?
A baby's smile is an indication of the sense of security and happiness that he is with his mother. I stare at my mom's face and follow her movements with my eyes because I want to keep an eye on my beloved mom. When moms come near me or get in vision, my arms and legs flutter, which is a state of explosion of joy, saying, "It's mom!"
A baby's message of love is also to touch a mother's face or body, or to lean her inside her baby carrier to ask for skin contact.
When they reach the age of 5 to 6 months, they begin to make sounds like "Ah" and "Uh" even if they cannot be expressed in words. It is called Nango. You may be saying, "I love you mom," or you may be thinking, "Look and listen!" to what you've made a new release. Regardless of which, I love how she is trying so hard to appeal to her mom.
Once you become able to crawl, you will also start to "follow" when you follow your mother where you are.
When did you start seeing signs of love for moms?
Newborn babies are said to have a vision of around 0.01, and they are hardly visible, but at about four months old, their vision develops and they begin to clearly recognize the mother's presence. Therefore, when mom approaches or when they meet their eyes, they get happy and react.
He has a natural sense of smell and can be sensed through his mouth, so while he is still blind, he opens his mouth and tries to find his mother by smell. That could also be said to be a "sign that I love mom."
You have to be a mom! What will become?
Although there are individual differences, people generally start to feel shy around 6 to 8 months. You can now distinguish between moms from others, and you will cry when you don't have a mom who will always be with you and take care of you, or when someone else holds you, you will cry. You may follow and follow them everywhere, making it difficult to do housework or not being able to go to the bathroom slowly.
During this period, it is difficult to ask parents to take care of them, including dads, and other adults, which tends to put a lot of strain on them. You may have no choice but to hold your baby or carry him on your back to reassure him while doing housework.
The peak of my follow-up was around 1.5 years old. As you start to reach the age of 2 or 3 and start to expand into your relationships, such as making friends of your generation, your obsession with moms will weaken. It's a limited period of time, so be sure to accept the baby's feelings and give them a strong return to their love.
Why do you fall in love with mom?
Even before birth, babies hear their mother's voice in their stomachs. Even after birth, babies feel relieved when they hear the voices of mothers who have taken care of them, such as milk and diaper changes, and feel warm when they touch them.
How to respond to signs of moms love
If your baby sends you a sign that she loves you, mom should respond with a smile and gently call out to you. Skinships such as holding, touching, and hugging also add to the baby's sense of happiness and security. Playing together with toys is also a good communication.
However, there may be times when you cannot do so, such as when you have to leave your child at a nursery school.
When you cry after them, you can't help but be able to leave your baby with a long time, and you tend to extend the time you're together or look back on it with an worried look on your face, but this can amplify your baby's anxiety. It's tough for moms too, but the trick is to just smile and wave, "I'm off," and then quickly leave. Surprisingly, babies change their mindset faster than mothers, and they become more comfortable after a while.
Are you also "Daddy no"? !
When people start to feel shy, they always start to feel anxious and fearful about adults they don't know about other than the people they are with. Dads end up spending less time with their babies due to work, so they feel like they are "someone who they don't know very well," and sometimes they don't like it.
This is just a step in the growth process, and we are approaching a time when we are not allowed to do anything other than moms. I don't really hate my dad, so there's no need to worry.
Daddy! What to do when you cry
It is recommended to gradually build a relationship of trust by showing that you are getting along with your mom or taking care of her when you are in a good mood.
It can be painful to be crying because you don't want to be helped, but continuing to take care of people without giving up can also build trust. Get support from your mom, and don't give up and take care of her with persistence. This emotion is transmitted to the baby as well. It is important to not get irritated or panic, but to relax and treat people gently while speaking to each other.
One way to prevent this is to talk to the baby in his stomach before he is born, or to take care of him changing his diaper and bathing immediately after birth, so that the baby will recognize his dad's presence.
