When does a baby start to be shy? Can it be fixed? How do moms and dad

Shy, showing a negative reaction to people you don't know. It's difficult for both the baby and the adults around it, but it's a path that everyone can take while growing up. Don't panic when that time comes, know when it starts, when it will subside, and why it will happen.

What does shy mean?

The dictionary definition is "to be embarrassed or dislike when a child sees someone they don't know."
Generally, this refers to situations where a baby will cry when a first-time or stranger approaches and talks to or holds him. This is an event that appears during the growth process, and it begins naturally and gradually subsides.
Even if you don't cry, if you react by stiffening your body or looking away, it could be that you are shy too. If you feel that it's different from usual, be sure to take care of it.

When does shyness start?

Although there are individual differences, one guideline is around 6 months old. Of course, some children are slower, while others do not show clear signs of shyness. The timing and degree of the baby vary depending on the baby, so don't worry too much about it even if it's different from other children.
Around the same time, changes occur, such as starting to make a sound or staring at something and pointing at it. This is a time when you develop curiosity and become interested in various things, and you can use your hands well, so you can also see movements like touching or holding something you are concerned about, or hitting something you hold on to something else. These are all stages of growth.

Why do babies become shy?

The biggest reason is that your baby's eyesight will develop and you will be able to see the faces of people close to you. The relationships of attachment to adults, such as moms and dads, who are always close to you and who love you, deepen, and when they are treated to by their beloved moms and dads, they become happy, but on the other hand, they start to feel anxious and fearful towards adults they don't know, and they end up crying. When moms and dads leave their side, it is more likely that they will cry "after-skills".
It seems that many babies find themselves "a bothering me, but scary" out of curiosity and fear, and many babies cling to their moms and dads while glancing at others.

Did you cry even though you're family? !

Not only can you know someone you are dealing with in a good mood, but you may suddenly experience a shy, rejection reaction to someone you have been in. You may be shocked that you've been disliked, but as this is common, you can quickly recover from the relationship, so don't worry.
Dads who spend less time with their babies due to work circumstances may be considered a "don't know" and may end up crying. Try to spend your time at home on holidays, such as when you can interact with your baby as much as possible so that you can remember your face.

How long does shy last?

It often falls between the ages of 1 and 2, but some children end sooner, while others continue even after the age of 3. There is a large individual difference, so there is no need to worry whether it is early or late.
However, if you become too shy to be accustomed to moms or are unable to interact well with other adults or friends of the same age, the burden on moms will also increase. If you are in trouble, it is a good idea to use a consultation center such as a local government's Childcare Support Center. Don't worry about it alone, just rely on others.

What to do with shyness?

If an adult other than mom and dad start crying as soon as he holds her, it can create an awkward atmosphere and make you feel sorry for him. It is easy for moms and dads to hug them again, but we recommend that you watch over them with a smile for a while to avoid increasing anxiety in the baby. If a baby can see a mom's dad's smile and realize that the person holding her is not scary, she may stop crying.
If you explain that it's a time of shyness, such as those who are holding you, you'll understand that the adults around you are in a time of shyness. Let's watch over you together.

Can shyness be cured?

If you don't usually have the opportunity to meet people other than your family, there are so many strangers outside the house that you end up crying every time you meet someone. To prevent this from happening, it may be a good idea to gain experience meeting people little by little before they are six months old.
Once you've become shy, it's not okay to suddenly get in contact with various people in an attempt to get people used to. It is important to avoid overdoing it as it can be a heavy burden for the baby and can cause trauma. Shyness is a very common reaction that occurs during the course of growth. The baby will eventually subside, so be sure to observe your baby and be careful to relax without putting more strain on it than necessary.

Do you sometimes not be shy?

Many babies become shy, but some don't do it at all.
Therefore, just because you are not shy, it cannot be said that there is a general delay in growth or obstacles. However, if the condition continues after 6 to 9 months of age, such as not responding to appeals, not matching your eyes, or not showing interest in people or things around you, it is possible that you may have vision or hearing problems. You may be suspected of autism or developmental disorders, so it may be a good idea to consult a specialist.

summary

Some mothers and fathers may be shy and may feel anxious or hurt, but once you know the reason, you can be able to watch over them casually, thinking it's a growth process. Don't be depressed even if you cry or be reluctant, and cherish your daily skinship.

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