Babies who don't like being held...don't worry! It is a stage in the growth process

If a baby suddenly doesn't want to be held, mom and dad will be confused.
However, it is a stage of development that many babies exhibit. Remain calm and accept that the time has come.

Does your baby hate being held?

Speaking of babies, they love being held by mom and dad! That's the image, isn't it?
It may come as a surprise that such a baby doesn't like being held.
But actually, it's not uncommon. Don't be shocked if your baby refuses when you try to hold him.

It is common for babies to start showing signs of not liking being held around 3 to 4 months of age. This is the time when your child will have enough muscle strength to be able to sit upright and support their head on their own without it shaking.
It is part of growing up that sometimes they use their whole body to refuse to be held.

How do you know if you don't like it?

If your dog cries while you're holding him for no apparent reason, such as because he's hungry or his diaper is dirty, it's likely that he doesn't like being held.

The most common case is that the child does not like being held sideways.
Until the baby's neck is able to sit up, the main method is to hold the baby on the side with the baby lying horizontally. This is because holding your child vertically in an upright position requires you to support their unstable head, which requires more care.
However, at a certain stage, the baby may start to dislike being held sideways and start crying.

They may also resist being held by straining their legs, arching their back, or twisting their body.
There are several causes for this "curving" behavior, one of which is the appeal that "I don't like being held."
The baby's small body may bend back with a force that is unimaginable, which can be scary. Be especially careful when holding your pet in a high position.

Why do you hate being hugged?

One of the reasons is that I don't like the way I hold her.
In addition to not liking being held on your side, you may also cry if the way you hold your child is unstable and puts extra strain on your body, or if someone who is not used to holding your child is holding you in a timid manner that shows your nervousness.

Babies have a higher body temperature than adults, so being held in their arms can make them feel hot and make them uncomfortable.

It may also be because your child is bored with less stimulation from being indoors all day long.
As their bones become stronger and their muscles grow stronger, they start to want to move, and in some cases, they don't like being held still.

There are various reasons why a dog may not like being held. Observe the situation carefully, find the cause, and take appropriate action.

What should I do if I don't like it?

The first thing to try is to change the way you hold your baby.

If your dog starts crying while you are holding him on his side, if his stomach is full, his diaper is clean, and there doesn't seem to be any cause for discomfort such as being hot or cold, then it's likely that he doesn't like the way you hold him. In that case, just hold your baby vertically and they will stop crying.

Holding your dog close to each other's bodies can help stabilize their posture and calm them down. Be careful not to overextend your baby's arms and legs, and keep them in a naturally bent position with arms in a W-shape and legs in an M-shape.

There are many babies who don't like being held with their bare hands, but are able to calmly be held using a baby carrier. The baby probably feels at ease because it allows the baby to be held in a stable position while being in close contact with mom and dad.
Even if you can't hold them face-to-face, they may be happy if you hold them facing forward.

If you walk around while holding your pet, the rhythmic vibrations may help them relax. When I walk outside and see a change of scenery, I sometimes get distracted and stop crying.
Just patting the baby gently on the baby's back can help calm the baby down, so we recommend that mothers and fathers first relieve their anxiety and tension and face the baby in a relaxed manner.

Is there no need to worry if you don't like being held?

If your baby doesn't like being held, it may be due to physiological discomfort, or it may be a sign that due to the development of their muscles and brain, they want to move their body or look at things that interest them, or that they are beginning to have a will. In most cases, there is no need to worry as it is just a stage in the growth process.

If your pet really doesn't like it, you can choose not to force him to hold you.
You can breastfeed while your baby is lying down, and just touching each other while sleeping together is a good way to communicate. You can use a stroller when going out.
Don't worry too much about it, and try exploring "my child's style" together.

However, if your dog not only refuses to be held, but also won't stop crying for no apparent reason, or keeps arching back and forth, it could be a sign of some kind of health problem.
Observe changes in complexion, presence of fever, vomiting, swelling of joints, etc., as well as the frequency and strength of curls, and if you are concerned, consult your doctor.